How to Give her the Christmas Gift She Wants

Introduction:

Giving a gift to a woman is an easy task, as long as you know what she needs and wants.  A woman’s needs are one thing, however you should never give her a gift that she needs, she may need a washing machine but that is not a Christmas gift.  When you give her the gift that she really wants she will know that you listen to her and that you really care. So keep your eyes open to watch for signs and pay attention to her every word because a woman will drop hints as to what she wants for Christmas.  Follow these tips and give her the gift that she really wants for Christmas this year.

Step 1

Determine the likes and dislikes of the woman by looking at her home décor, you may have seen it a hundred times but did you really look at it?  .  A house can tell a lot about a person; you will determine their style, the colors that they like and if their home is comfortable you will know that they are down to earth.  Check out her closet to determine her style is she laid back or is she high fashion.  Look at her jewelry; does she wear yellow gold, white gold or sterling silver?

Step 2

Ask her out for afternoon of shopping.  This is a good way to learn what stores she likes.  Shop at her favorite stores and ask her if she likes this or that.  Listen for the remarks :  “I love it, or that is awesome”  Continue to watch her and if she walks around the entire store with the merchandise and then sets it down, looks back at it as if saying goodbye to an old friend.  You would then tell the salesperson to put the merchandise on hold for you.

Step 3

Talk to her best friends, and her family.  Ask them if she has been dropping any hints about what she wants for Christmas and ask them what they think would be the perfect gift for her.

Step 4

Meet her for coffee and tell her that someone has been asking about her Christmas gift list.  And then ask her what she wants so you can share the list with the anonymous asker.  Watch her and listen carefully as she recites her list.  Usually there is a pause before she announces the gift that she really wants, there will be excitement in her voice and she may speak slightly louder.  Look at her eyes are they dilated?  These are all clues that this is the gift that she wants for Christmas.

Note:

It is wise to give her a few Christmas gifts; women love to open up presents, so give her two gifts that she wants and then give her something extravagant.

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Comments (3)

jswana said:

	... You are so right. I gave my mother a deep freezer one Christmas when I was much younger. She was sweet and loved it but I followed up with a crystal figurine that she adored. I do not want exactly what I need. Thanks for sharing.
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November 07, 2010
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Susan Woods said:

	... Jswana, I know what you mean about giving gifts that people need, those gifts are never really appreciated but if you give the gift that they want, well they are always thrilled. Christmas is for giving...so surprise everyone with gifts that they will cherish.
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November 08, 2010
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tracysmith159 said:

	... Wonderful article on what to give her. Spending time with someone is a great way to find out what they want and/or need. Plus helping someone go shopping is very helpful during the Christmas season
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November 24, 2010
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